Wednesday, April 19, 2017

Who, What, Where, Why?

I've been a bad blogger, haven't I? Barely been here at all, with no good reason really.

If I'm honest, a lot of it has to do with self doubt, then I kick myself. I'm a very open person, in real life, as well as on here, sometimes I wonder if it's the right thing to do? If I voice my opinion on something, you can guarantee I'll do it in real life too. I wonder sometimes, though, if I should just keep my mouth shut!

For example, I opened my mouth last night, in a group chat. I ended up deleting it, because there was a chance that the person I was speaking about would see it, and I would rather say things face to face. Do I regret what I said, well, no actually! I only called that person self-centered and quite frankly aren't we all, just a little? So it was nothing horrific, but I feel terrible for my big mouth and my big foot I stuck in it!

We all have complicated problems, some much worse than others, but when a person can't seem to find the happy at all, it grates me a little.
 Is it my business, well no actually. 
Am I allowed an opinion, possibly not.

However, I am opinionated, passionate. My life isn't easy, but I rarely complain. I have 2 sayings in life that get me through:

'Same shit, different day'


'It is what it is'

We don't know what life is going to throw at us, my world has been flipped upside down, over the last few years. For a while I wanted to complain, and I did. Then I thought 'sod this, I'm going to be positive and happy'. I spend my time looking for the little pleasures in life, to make me smile. 

I don't judge the way others live their life, if you're not hurting others, I don't care. Do what makes you happy!

I've gone off track a little, I was beginning to explain where I've been. I guess I've been scared to have an opinion. Then I realised that I don't have many readers anyway! haha.

Anyway, I will write more. I will never be a 'proper' blogger anyway, I don't share my posts enough, my posts don't get shared. I'm not worried though.

It is what it is!

I would like to leave you with one thing though: If you have an opinion, voice it. People will agree or disagree, but if it's not offensive, it's nothing more than a conversation starter.


  1. Don't ever be scared to have an opinion. X

  2. Opinions are what start conversations. It's what makes the world go round. If it comes from the heart then it's perfectly right to express it. Oh and you have more readers than you think, just that many read, don't comment and move on xx

  3. Nice to see you in my feed tonight :) I love your positive attitude, I've had my down days sure but positivity gets you through the crap times if you allow for some xx


I do love comments and read them all, please be nice and tboughful to others x